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Joint Worship Service Planned
Sunday, August 15
On this day we are inviting our sister church,
Cornerstone Baptist of Harrisburg to join us for
a celebration of baptism and the Lord’s Supper.
Both of our congregations have new believers who
will give evidence of their faith through the ritual
of baptism and we will draw together in the
observance of Communion. To top off the day,
we will host a potluck dinner for the two churches.
You will now want to miss this day of joy and worship!
Confusing Communication
In a perfect world of communication, one
person clearly says something to an attentive party
who responds appropriately. However, somewhere
along the way, a monkey wrench gets tossed into
the works and causes confusion. I tell students that
speaking too quickly, quietly, or not giving a person
your undivided attention may lead to unnecessary
hurdles that trip up the thought.
The wrong message ignites somewhere along
the trail and becomes a raging rumor that spreads
like wildfire, destroying people’s reputations. It is
hard for anyone to determine the point of origin
and likely would not matter anyway because the
damage is already done.
Teach your preteen the following skills to prevent
a forest fire of inflammatory remarks. First, speak
slowly and in a strong voice. Look at the speaker,
listen closely, and include a clarifying question or a
response that lets the other person know you are
tuned into him exclusively.
Secondly, deal with the main source. The more
people who help to transport a message, the more
likely accidents are to occur. Thirdly, the buck stops
with you. Do not accept negative comments about
someone as the truth, and even if you think there is
a grain of credibility in the rumor, get the 411 directly
from the person the comment is targeted toward.
Excerpted from Mean Girls & Boys, by Bill Conger
found in Parent Life a free resource available at VBC.